Admin

10 Tips For Winning At Custody

By Jean Mahserjian

Winning at Custody is one of the most difficult issues parents confront in divorce. In many cases, both parents want custody and are willing to spend whatever it takes to win. Unfortunately, more than any other issue in divorce, to win at custody means that you have to be willing to prove your children’s other parent unfit. Custody is all about what is best for the children – and that involves proving that you are the best parent – i.e. that the other parent is not as good a parent as you and/or that the other parent is just simply a bad parent.

My recommended tips for winning at custody are:

1. If you are not involved in your children’s lives now, you are not getting custody from a judge. If you are a working parent who lets your spouse handle all of the details of parenting, you are not prepared to win at custody. You must either change your objectives or change your parenting. If you really want custody, get involved now – in all aspects of your children’s lives. Get involved in your children’s schooling. Attend their extra curricular events. Take them to the doctor and dentist. Get to know what professionals your children see and be involved with them?

2. Make sure that you are not exposing your children to unsafe or unhealthy environments when they are with you. Are you involved in another relationship? Has there been more than one? Be very careful about exposing your children to your companion(s). Many judges, professionals, and other parents object to the children being subjected to other relationships too early in that process. More important, if you really want to win at custody, it should be because you want to spend time with your children parenting them. Spending time with someone else when you have the children is a recipe for losing at custody in court.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bI-jdXrkYoQ[/youtube]

3. Do you put down your children’s other parent when the children are with you – either consciously or subconsciously? If you do, stop. One sure way to lose at custody is to hurt the children’s relationship with the other parent. A judge will consider whether a parent promotes or prevents the other parent’s access to and relationship with the children when seeking custody.

4. Winning at custody requires that you keep a calendar for everything. You need to be able to look back and remember details when it comes time to litigage custody. If you do not know when you had the children, what events you attended, where they were or you were or allof the times your spouse was not timely for a pick up or drop off, you will only hurt your own case. You can keep track on your own calendar, with your own journal, or with a professionally managed calendaring system.

5. Be on time…Be on time…Be on time. Few issues cause as much conflict as a parent who is persistently late in picking up or dropping off children. It irks the judges, it creates arguments with your ex or soon to be ex, and it stresses out the children. So, Be on time.

6. Be flexible. If the other parent wants to switch weekends or weekdays, do it if you can manage your schedule. When the time comes to tell the judge why you should have custody, you can tell the judge that you are the parent who makes sure that the schedule works. In a close case, this issue makes a difference.

7. Do not involve your children in the issues that are pending in court or with attorneys. Courts generally are very opposed to the children knowing the details of what are essentially adult issues. Children should be told that both parents love them and want to see them – that’s it. The children may see a psychologist and/or an attorney or other professional if the court directs that. The children can talk to those people about your case – you should not be giving them the details, especially if giving the details involves denigrating the other parent.

8. Winning at custody requires considering one other very important factor: where do the children want to live. It is not a good idea to coach your children on this issue. They will have an opportunity to tell what they want to either the court, their attorney or a psychologist. However, it is a good idea to know what they want. If they want to live with their other parent, you should not spend all of your time and money pursuing custody, unless you believe that it is unsafe or inappopriate for the children to live with that parent.

9. You do have to be willing to show why your children’s other parent should not have custody. So, you need to keep track of whether that parent is on time, involved, and flexible with the schedule. If that parent has any issues that affect custody, such as a history of mental health issues which impact his or her ability to care for the children or alcohol or drug addictions, you need to let the court know. Other issues that can and do affect custody determinations include the number and frequency of romantic relationships and the epxosure of the children to those relationship, the proper supervision of the children, and ensuring that the children attend school and see professionals such as a doctor and dentist when necessary.

10. Above all else, hire a good attorney and be open and honest with your attorney. Listen to your attorney, not some friend or relative who is sure about what you should do because they had a friend or a relative who got a better deal. If you are paying your attorney, listen to what he or she has to say.

About the Author: Jean Mahserjian has been practicing law for almost two decades, with much of that time devoted to practicing family and divorce law. She has authored numerous books, articles and websites devoted to assisting consumers facing divorce and separation issues. You can view her site at:

millenniumdivorce.com

Source:

isnare.com

Permanent Link:

isnare.com/?aid=9041&ca=Legal

Eurovision ’04 winner Ruslana discusses her paths as singer, spokesmodel, stateswoman and source of inspiration

Monday, March 30, 2009

First becoming famous in her native Ukraine in the 1990s, long-haired self-described “AmazonRuslana gained international recognition for winning the 2004 Eurovision Song Contest with her song “Wild Dances,” inspired by the musical traditions of the Hutsul people of the Ukrainian Carpathian Mountains.

In the five years since, Ruslana has decided to use her name and public status to represent a number of worthy causes, including human trafficking, renewable energy, and even the basic concept of democratic process, becoming a public face of Ukraine’s Orange Revolution and later serving in Parliament.

Currently, she is on an international publicity tour to promote her album Wild Energy, a project borne out of a science fiction novel that has come to symbolize her hopes for a newer, better, freer way of life for everyone in the world. She took time to respond to questions Wikinews’s Mike Halterman posed to her about her career in music and her other endeavors.

This is the fifth in a series of interviews with past Eurovision contestants, which will be published sporadically in the lead-up to mid-May’s next contest in Moscow.

Retrieved from “https://en.wikinews.org/w/index.php?title=Eurovision_%2704_winner_Ruslana_discusses_her_paths_as_singer,_spokesmodel,_stateswoman_and_source_of_inspiration&oldid=3548877”

The Pros And Cons Of Doggy Daycare In Odenton

byAlma Abell

When you have a doggie for the first time, you quickly learn that you there is more to taking care of that doggie than just feeding it. Many people will look at you like you are insane if you mention the Doggie daycare in Odenton to them or any doggie daycare at all really. Dogs are not to be put in daycares; they are not children and can behave and be fine just fine by themselves for a few hours a day.

There are some pet parents that simply do not believe that however and tough the Doggie daycare in Odenton and everywhere else is relatively new, you can be sure there are plenty of pet parents out there that get their dogs up and ready to go to daycare in the mornings on their way to work.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WUbbjyOLVF4[/youtube]

Of course, as with any other type of daycare there are pros and cons to this kind as well. Read on for a few of the pros and cons of the doggie daycares in your area.

Pros of Doggie Daycares

* The fact that your dog doesn’t have to stay in a lonely house all day long is one of the main reasons that people put their dogs in daycare. You would not want to be stuck in a house all day long with no one to talk too and your puppy doesn’t appreciate it either.

* Safety is also a major concern for pet owners. If there is a fire, you pet lacks the skills to get out of the home. If the pet is safe in daycare then you don’t have to worry about it.

* Wear and tear on your home is another good reason for doggie daycare. Pets that are left alone tend to get into trouble. You can save a lot of tear on your furniture by putting Fido in daycare when you are gone.

Cons of Doggie Daycares

* The only real cons seems to be the fact that some dogs get overly stimulated and are hard to calm down when they get home.

Doggie daycares have become an option that many pet owners are exploring these days. For more information, visit GambrillsVeterinaryCenter.com today.

News briefs:October 17, 2007

Wikinews Brief October 17, 2007

Audio Wikinews – Problems listening to the file? See media help.

The time is 4:45 UTC and this an Audio Wikinews Brief for Wednesday, October 17, 2007.

[edit]

Retrieved from “https://en.wikinews.org/w/index.php?title=News_briefs:October_17,_2007&oldid=773628”

New Zealand ‘Boobs on Bikes’ parade approved

Wednesday, August 16, 2006

The Auckland ‘Boobs on Bikes’ parade for next weeks annual sex industry convention, Erotica Expo which features naked woman on motorcycles has been approved by Auckland City Council’s events and promotion staff despite disapproval by Auckland Mayor, Dick Hubbard and 13 other Auckland City Council councillors.

The mayor and the other councillors have signed a petition to withdraw the permit. Hubbard said “I think such a parade down Queen Street is totally inappropriate because it’s shamelessly promoting a pornography trade fair. It’s particularly degrading to women.”

However, the organiser of the expo, Steve Crow, says Mr Hubbard’s opposition is morally based.

All other previous parades had been held informally. Steve Crow, organiser of the parade and expo said “He only asked the council and the police if they wished to be involved as a matter of courtesy, and the parade will go ahead regardless. It’s legal under New Zealand law. They can basically go to hell; we’re going to do it.” Crow said the only reason they asked for permission this year is to have police involvement for spectators’ safety.

A spokeswoman for the Mayor said “The proposed route for the tour would pass a kindergarten and school. It’s the councillors that have got upset about it due to huge public reaction by people saying they didn’t want it,” the council has received numerous complaints to the parade.

Bob McCoskrie, Family First national director said “[We are] offering support for the topless porn girls by making bras and sweatshirts available. Typical of Auckland weather, there’s a high likelihood it’ll either be cold and/or wet. We’re genuinely concerned for their welfare and health.”

The Councillors are meeting today, August 16, to try and withdraw the permit that gives the parade green lights throughout Queen Street. Their decision is due sometime late today.

Retrieved from “https://en.wikinews.org/w/index.php?title=New_Zealand_%27Boobs_on_Bikes%27_parade_approved&oldid=4552008”

Gastric bypass surgery performed by remote control

Sunday, August 21, 2005

A robotic system at Stanford Medical Center was used to perform a laparoscopic gastric bypass surgery successfully with a theoretically similar rate of complications to that seen in standard operations. However, as there were only 10 people in the experimental group (and another 10 in the control group), this is not a statistically significant sample.

If this surgical procedure is as successful in large-scale studies, it may lead the way for the use of robotic surgery in even more delicate procedures, such as heart surgery. Note that this is not a fully automated system, as a human doctor controls the operation via remote control. Laparoscopic gastric bypass surgery is a treatment for obesity.

There were concerns that doctors, in the future, might only be trained in the remote control procedure. Ronald G. Latimer, M.D., of Santa Barbara, CA, warned “The fact that surgeons may have to open the patient or might actually need to revert to standard laparoscopic techniques demands that this basic training be a requirement before a robot is purchased. Robots do malfunction, so a backup system is imperative. We should not be seduced to buy this instrument to train surgeons if they are not able to do the primary operations themselves.”

There are precedents for just such a problem occurring. A previous “new technology”, the electrocardiogram (ECG), has lead to a lack of basic education on the older technology, the stethoscope. As a result, many heart conditions now go undiagnosed, especially in children and others who rarely undergo an ECG procedure.

Retrieved from “https://en.wikinews.org/w/index.php?title=Gastric_bypass_surgery_performed_by_remote_control&oldid=4331525”

What You Should Eat For Gout Prevention And Gout Control?

By Meera Watts

Gout is a sort of metabolic arthritis which is an extremely painful disease. The disease is caused by the congenital disorder of the uric acid metabolism. Our body produces the uric acid but the body gets rid of the uric acid through the system. However, some problems in the kidneys or the accumulation of too much uric acid in the body cannot be flashed out of the body through the system and they start to form the uric acid crystals in the body. The crystals start to be deposited in the joints, tendons and the tissues of the surrounding joints causing the attack of gout.

So, gout is mainly caused by the body’s congenital condition in being unable to successfully handle uric acids. The deposits of the uric acid crystals cause the intolerable pain in the body. The affected areas become red, swollen, warm and they sometimes become so sensitive that even a slightest touch cause enormous pain. Fever, nausea, vomiting can also occur with the attack of gout. Sometimes the crystals grow in size and they burst through the skin causing the discharge of chalky white substance.

In dealing with the problem of gout the patient must be diagnosed and treated in time. The patient should be under the continuous guidance of the expert doctor. The doctor will properly diagnose the level of the uric acid and the other symptoms to decide upon the right and ideal diet for the patients. The patients should be treated under proper medication too. However, the food diet is an important factor when you are combating the problem of gout. Since the increase of the uric acid level in the blood is the main cause of the disease so reducing the level of uric acid in the blood can effectively reduce the problems of gout.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1PyX5b3tBqY[/youtube]

The main option for the gout control and the gout prevention is the proper and regular following of the food diet chart. Only the perfect and ideal food diet can control the level of uric acid in the blood and thus can reduce the chance of gout attack. Some foods can be dangerous for the gout patients. The high purine foods can increase the level of uric acid in the blood so the patients of gout should avoid eating the high purine foods. On the contrary, they should opt for the low purine foods that can help in controlling the lower level of uric acid I the blood.

Foods and beverages like the organ meats or kidney, liver, brains of the animals, lamb, pork, beef, mushrooms, cauliflower, dried beans, peas, beer, alcohol, stout, seafood, sea fish, cod all these are high purine foods. These should be avoided to control or prevent the gout. Foods like cereal, green vegetables, eggs, fruits like cherries, berries, blue berries, strawberries, milk and milk products, pasta all these should be included in the daily diet. These foods help in preventing the problems of gout.

Drinking plenty of water is important to control the problems of gout. Lemon juice is good for reducing the uric acid level in the blood. Ensure these in your daily diet to prevent the gout.

About the Author: To find out more about

Homeopathic Gout Treatment

, visit

Gout Remedies

.

Source:

isnare.com

Permanent Link:

isnare.com/?aid=659613&ca=Wellness%2C+Fitness+and+Diet

Report urges Kenya to ban plastic bags

Wednesday, March 9, 2005File:Plastic bag stock sized.jpg

They are cheap, useful, and very plentiful, and that is exactly the problem, according to researchers. A report issued on Feb. 23 by a cadre of environment and economics researchers suggested that Kenya should ban the common plastic bag that one gets at the checkout counter of grocery stores, and place a levy on other plastic bags, all to combat the country’s environmental problems stemming from the bags’ popularity.

Retrieved from “https://en.wikinews.org/w/index.php?title=Report_urges_Kenya_to_ban_plastic_bags&oldid=4549618”

Category:June 1, 2010

? May 31, 2010
June 2, 2010 ?
June 1

Pages in category “June 1, 2010”

Retrieved from “https://en.wikinews.org/w/index.php?title=Category:June_1,_2010&oldid=1333764”

Whats Making Us Fatter?

By Sandra Prior

A simple tomato sandwich has around 240 calories. A teaspoon of table sugar has only 15 calories. To use up this small amount of energy, all you need do is sleep for 20 minutes or take 10 minutes styling your hair. Or just reading this article should burn up a spoonful. Add playing the piano for 10 minutes and taking a quick shower and you will have used up most of the calories from the table sugar the average person consumes in a day.

Why then is obesity on the increase and reaching epidemic proportions? The main cause of weight gain is a lack of perspective. Weight gain is a result of eating more food than we can use up living, laughing, loving and working. Put quite simply, no particular food can be singled out as the culprit, although it probably helps to point out that a gram of fat has twice the calories of a gram of table sugar. But it gets more interesting. An ever increasing body of scientific research on table sugar shows that some of it in the diet actually helps to curb cravings, helps prevent bingeing sessions and aids adherence to healthier, low fat diets.

Table sugar is just a natural carbohydrate, nothing more, nothing less. It is natures own sweetener, made up equally of fructose, and glucose. It has been used to make good food more palatable and fun for hundreds of years in exactly the same form as today.

Build a Better Breakfast

Before your next well balanced breakfast of oats and fresh fruit, ask yourself this, wheres the protein and fat? After all, with the exception of eggs and sausage, typical breakfast foods cereal, fruit, toast, pastries and juice provide you with almost nothing but carbohydrates, often in the form of sugar. That means more morning meals are highly unbalanced.

Most bodybuilders already know they need high quality protein the kind found in meat, eggs and dairy to nourish and build muscle. But fat is important at your morning meal too. Thats because, along with the protein, it slows the absorption of carbohydrates into your bloodstream, providing you with a steady supply of energy instead of a quick sugar rush (often followed by a sugar crash). And by keeping you full longer, this protein/fat combo can also help shrink your midsection.

In a recent study, researches found that when people had eggs for breakfast, they ate 1050 fewer kilojoules during the rest of the day than when they had a bagel instead. Of course, you dont need a written article to tell you how to make scrambled eggs. So here are some new ways to fill your belly, feed your muscles and energize your body first thing in the morning.

Toast with Tuna

Think of it this way. Youre simply trading high sugar jam for high protein tuna salad. Its easy to make ahead of time, and by tweaking the conventional recipe to include cranberries, you get a hint of jam sweetness.

1170 can solid tuna, in brine

2tbsp dried cranberries, roughly chopped

onion, minced

1 tbsp mayonnaise

2 tsp balsamic vinegar

Salt & pepper to taste

Mix all the ingredients together. Serve a scoop on a piece of toasted wholegrain bread. Makes 2 servings.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WAAE2yNZs78[/youtube]

Berry High Protein Yoghurt

With this recipe, you control the ingredients, the manufacturer doesnt. And that means you can ensure its free of hard to avoid added sugar, while nearly having triple the protein of most ready to eat yoghurts.

450g plain yoghurt

2 cups fresh or frozen unsweetened mixed berries

4 scoops (about 80g) vanilla or strawberry whey-protein powder

Sweetener to taste (optional)

Line a two cup mesh strainer with a paper coffee filter and place it over a mixing bowl. Fill the filter with the yoghurt, cover with a clean cloth or waxed paper, and set the bowl (with strainer inside) in the fridge for several hours. Much of the liquid from the yoghurt will drain into the bowl, resulting in thicker yoghurt. In a blender, puree the berries along with the whey-protein powder and sweetener. Once the yoghurt has drained, place it in a large bowl and stir in the berry puree. Serve in one cup portions and store for up to three days. Makes 4 cups.

Almond Pecan Waffles

These high protein waffles boost the protein and fat intake, while dialing back the carbs. You can make almond flower by chopping slivered almonds in a food processor.

1 cup almond flour

cup finely chopped pecans

cup whey protein powder

1 tsp baking powder

110g low fat plain cream cheese, softened

6 eggs

cup whipping or fresh cream

While your waffle iron preheats, combine the almond flour, pecans, whey protein powder and baking powder in a small bowl. In another bowl, whisk the cream cheese and two eggs until smooth. Add the remaining eggs one at a time and whisk thoroughly after each. Mix in the cream, then stir in the dry ingredients. Spoon about a third of the cup of batter onto the hot waffle iron and cook for about three minutes, until golden brown. Top with low sugar syrup (recipe below), peanut butter or fresh fruit. To let them cool, place in a zip lock bag and freeze. When you ready to eat one, just pop it into the toaster. Makes about 6 18cm waffles.

Cottage Cheese Pancakes

These pancakes are not only packed with high quality protein, but also lighter and fluffier

than the classic versions. Serve with a bit of butter and five milliliters of low sugar syrup and cinnamon for each pancake. Using sugarlite cuts the kilojoules by nearly two thirds.

Low Sugar Syrup

500ml Sugarlite (Hulletts)

2/3 cup fat free milk

Combine ingredients in a pot, stir occasionally, bringing it to the boil. Stir continuously till it reaches the thread stage, remove from stove and pour over pancakes.

Pancakes

1 cup cottage cheese

2 eggs

cup of butter

cup milk

cup whole wheat flour

1 tbsp baking powder

1 tbsp sugar

1 tsp salt

tsp nutmeg (optional)

In a large bowl, stir together the cheese, eggs, butter and milk. Add the flour, baking powder, sugar, salt and nutmeg, and blend lightly until just mixed. Grease a griddle with cooking spray and place over medium heat. Put a large scoop of batter on the griddle and use the back of a spoon to spread it out evenly. The pancake is ready to flip when you begin to see small air bubbles form, about three to four minutes. Flip and cook for another minute or two. Makes about 12 10cm pancakes.

Mocha Custard

A 350ml frappuccino contains 44g sugar and a hefty dose of caffeine, but hardly any nutrients. And really, should you ever spend R15 on a glorified cup of coffee? Instead, try this custard alternative. It will provide you with a jolt of java, a 21g infusion of protein and a hefty dose of coconut fat, which contains a healthy type of saturated fat (called lauric acid) that boosts immunity.

1 430ml can coconut milk

2 cups strong coffee (regular or decaf)

3 eggs, beaten

3 scoops (about 60g) chocolate whey protein powder

Sweetener to taste

Pinch of salt

In a saucepan, combine the coconut milk, coffee, beaten eggs, whey protein powder, sweetener and salt. Whisk to mix well. Gently cook over medium heat, stirring constantly, until the mixture begins to thicken and lightly coats the back of a spoon. Remove from the heat, pour into a covered pitcher, and cool quickly by placing the pitcher into an ice water bath until its half submerged. Serve chilled in one cup portions for a quick breakfast. Or blend it with crushed ice until smooth and thick for a frozen mocha treat. Makes 4 cups.

About the Author: Sandra Prior runs her own bodybuilding website.

bodybuild.rr.nu

Source:

isnare.com

Permanent Link:

isnare.com/?aid=192676&ca=Food+and+Drinks